Monday, February 16, 2015

Under His Wings

Working through a box of mother's recipes, I found this program / cookbook from a Ladies' Day at Briar Church of Christ.  This was "Published" long before computer graphics and publishing.  I could type the recipes up but I like seeing mom's handwriting.  Though you might enjoy the recipes.  Here is a link to the document.
https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B7aaAUQ75DMWRkNXcDlUV3dlcVk/view?usp=sharing

Friday, May 24, 2013

Shelia Fay: The Preacher's Wife: a poem For Mom 05/25/2013

Shelia Fay: The Preacher's Wife: A Poem For Mom 05/25/2013: For Shelia on her Birthday. (5/25/2013) The Preacher’s Wife Seldom do we pause, to contemplate the life, Of the quiet joyful spiri...

The Preacher's Wife: For Mom 05/25/2013

For Shelia on her Birthday. (5/25/2013)


The Preacher’s Wife

Seldom do we pause, to contemplate the life,
Of the quiet joyful spirit of the country preacher's wife.


So much is seen and lauded of the man who wears the title.
But what of the preacher's wife?
 Do we think her mind is idle?

Whether she be worn or grieving,
 she enters through the doors.
Because she truly cares for you
 and truly loves the Lord.

She will be a first arriver
 and linger hours long.
Long after closing prayer,
 and last dismissal song.



But what do we know of HER,
 the one who’s always there.
The one who listens to my woes
without a judging air.

Do we know her heart is weary? 
 All eyes watching her to see.
Will she suffer long? 
Will she faithful be?




She is watched as a young mother, 
will she in anger raise a hand?
Or will she lovingly, but firmly,
 direct them to her command.

She is watched as a wife, will she ever tear him down?
Or will she be the silent partner and support him all around?

See no one stops to think 
of all the burdens she may bear.
She is his sole confidant.  
To only her his secrets share.

He knows that he can trust her, 
to listen and not debate.
Though she may see it different,
 her thoughts will simply wait.

She hears his disappointment
 when his sermons fail to strike.
When hearts are hard or indifferent
 and they continue as they like.


And when a soul is lost eternal,
 he's called to comfort, when comfort can't be found.
She sees his private weeping, 
and holds him close without a sound.

She happy takes the younger ones and loves them as her own.
She cries with them when hearts are broken; 
when they're feeling all alone.

She reminds them that God still loves them
 no matter how far they stray.
She vows to keep their secret, hold 
their hand and with them pray.



She stands beside her husband 
when The Family tears apart.
They leave to worship elsewhere.
 It almost breaks her heart.

And do not think that she, too, 
would love to worship there.
To sit with anonymity 
and fill her cup that's bare.

But that is not a choice for her and it will never be.
She made a promise when but a child,
 and from it she'll never flee.

How many souls did she attend as they made their flight to glory.
Hours, days she'd sit with them as they sang their final story.

She would pray with them, sing to them
 and talk of Heaven's bliss.
And when they drew their last breath,
 she would their forehead kiss.

Throughout her life she taught us
 there is someone greater than Self in life.

The greatest lesson came not from the preacher,
      but from the preacher's wife.





Angela Harvey
Blessed Daughter of that Country Preachers Wife

Wednesday, March 28, 2012

Spiritual Child Abuse / Neglect

Shelia had many opinions about many things, but none as strong as about Spiritual Child Abuse or Neglect.  She found it sad that all are universally outraged when they hear reports of  child's physical abuse or  a child found after years of physical neglect.  But no similar concern, outrage or consideration given to the Spiritual abuse or spiritual neglect of a child.  She believed for a parent to deprived a child of spiritual feeding by not bringing them to bible class or teaching them about God from the moment they were born was Spiritual Abuse.  We occasionally discussed mandatory reporting laws required of various professions or  the instinctive intervention a stranger would make to stop the physical abuse of  child.  Would that there would be the same concern, outrage and action on behalf of the child living in an environment of spiritual neglect.

Tuesday, November 1, 2011

Childhood

Shelia Fay live started may 25th 1941. she was born into a loving family to Elsie and Ernest. she had two sisters and a big brother.Then tragedy struck. Her father had to live in toen to work. He wrote letters to his family lften. One August day whilst walking to the mailbox to mail a letter home, he was struck by a drunk driver. He died soon there after. Her mother was rushed to the hospital just in time to tell him that she loved him and then to watch him die. she was only 5 months old. she would never know the father.